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Ruth’s genuinely changed the way we think and act, right from our first consult.

 

What sets Ruth apart for me is her unique combination of skills - from the mind of a lawyer, to the soul of a true animal devotee. In practice, this means that while advocating incredibly well researched natural diets, she maintains a realistic perspective on what’s practically achievable for each family - and that's really what's ensured our ongoing commitment to human-grade feeding of our pups.

 

Itches and weight fluctuations are thankfully a thing of the past for our boys, and in comparison to the costly and ultimately lifespan threatening treatments we'd been using (well-meaningly of course!), our consult fee was inconsequential (and still one of the best value investments we've made).

 

We've confidently recommended Ruth to numerous other friends and colleagues who've also deeply valued her excellent advice and unique holistic approach. I'd give 6 stars if I could!

- Anna Jones

Pet Loss & Grief Support

Honouring a sacred chapter in your relationship with your animal

Losing an animal companion can be one of the most heart-shaping experiences of a lifetime.

The bond we share with animals is intimate, constant, and deeply embodied. When that presence changes, whether through sudden loss, illness, or end-of-life transition, it can leave us feeling disoriented, raw, and profoundly alone.

 

This page exists to offer context, understanding, and support - not to rush grief, explain it away, or tell you how you should be feeling.

Understanding the depth of pet grief

Grief following the loss of an animal is often underestimated - by others, and sometimes even by ourselves.

Because animals are woven into our daily rhythms, their absence can affect:

  • the nervous system

  • emotional regulation

  • sleep, appetite, and concentration

  • our sense of safety and continuity

 

This journey is intensely personal and can feel overwhelming. You may find yourself questioning how to cope, or feeling as though no one truly understands the depth of what you’re experiencing.

There is no right way to grieve - and no timeline to follow.

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A personal note

I understand the pain that comes with losing a cherished companion.

When I suddenly lost my beautiful girl, Lilly, in November 2022, I was inconsolable and felt utterly alone in my grief, even while surrounded by the love of my two other cats.

That experience deepened my understanding of pet loss as something that is not just emotional, but somatic, relational, and spiritual.

I share more about this journey - and what it taught me - in the blog post linked below.

Our enduring bond: beyond physical presence

Our connection with animals does not simply end when their physical life does.

For many guardians, the bond continues in quieter, subtler ways - through memory, sensation, emotion, and meaning. Understanding this can bring a sense of peace, and a deeper appreciation for the enduring relationship you share.

Their physical departure is not an end, but a transition - one that often deepens connection and invites reflection, integration, and gentle spiritual growth.

Continue reading:
How to Find Comfort and Spiritual Growth Through Pet Loss: Lessons from Animals

(linked below)

Support through grief and transition

You don’t have to navigate this path alone.

Support during pet loss and grief may include:

  • having space to speak freely without minimising your experience

  • support through anticipatory grief or end-of-life transitions

  • gentle emotional and energetic regulation

  • guidance in honouring your animal in ways that feel meaningful and true

 

This work is not about fixing grief - but about holding it with care, so it can move and soften in its own time.

Ways to work together

Support for pet loss and grief is offered through Pet Loss Support Consults, created for human guardians navigating loss, transition, or anticipatory grief.

These sessions offer a calm, compassionate space to speak openly about your experience, receive guidance, and feel supported as you honour the bond you share with your animal - before or after their passing.

 

This work may be supportive if you are:

  • grieving the loss of a beloved companion

  • preparing for an animal’s end-of-life transition

  • seeking guidance on remembrance, ritual, or meaning-making

  • needing space to process grief without judgement or pressure

 

Two levels of support are available, allowing you to choose what feels most appropriate for where you are right now.

The love you shared with your animal does not disappear.

It continues - in memory, in meaning, and in the ways it has shaped you. Grief is one expression of that love, and it deserves to be held with tenderness and respect.

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